I have always preferred to stay alone n my mother was my best friend… nearly 2 years ago my crush rejected me n after that I lost my mum.. so I adopted a dog who I treat like my baby, cuddle him, behave like his mother etc.. i don’t like to keep people close to me… so am I a loner or lonely?
Neither Sir / Mam,
l think your grieving very normally over your
crush on one hand,,and your mum as well
on the other.
You might find grief counselling from a
normal counsellor helpful, please ask your
doctor for a referal if you agree with me?
As both are major losses.
Best of Science
Source:) studies & your friendship with
your dog is wonderful.
A loner as long as you have some happiness or contentment being alone.
Two losses could cause serious grieving. You may still be in the process of accepting these losses. Don’t label yourself yet, just cope and grow.
Sounds like both . Try and join a class or a gym and get out to meet people