my boyfriend is giving me mixed messages and I’m starting to become confused?

I have been with my boyfriend for almost six years. We are high school sweethearts and are currently attending college. He is transferring this year and I will be transferring to a university next year. We have discussed the possibility of being long distance if we attend universities that are not in our area, hopefully next year when I transfer it doesn’t come to that (I think it’d be too difficult for us) if I get accepted into a school close to our area.This is besides the point I wanted to make today though.

Recently my boyfriend has been acting kind of childish in my opinion, there are times when he gets mad if I do not do as he says (i.e. Once I was playfully not giving him my phone to look at the screen-shots I had in my photos; they were messages from him being sweet) and when I said that I loved him even though he was mad he told me that he doesn’t love me, and then I get hurt and he tries to become affectionate to win me over.

Another time was when we were driving back from a trip and I can’t necessarily remember what we were talking about because I was focused on driving but he told me that he wanted to kill himself because he was with me, which really hurt my feelings and I told him that if he really felt that way we shouldn’t be together but he seemed to take offense to that and after the next day told me that he meant it jokingly and was simply acting like an angsty teen. I responded that he is twenty-two years old and things like that really hurt me.

3 Answers

  • You two need to date a couple of other people. Doesn’t mean you’ll never, ever be together again. But there is a real lack of growth here. Dating other people could be a good thing. I don’t know about him.. but, at 22, you are likely not the same girl you were at 16. And 16 is rarely the time to choose a life partner.

  • Is he a manlet? U need a 6ft master race with a 10 inch penor or u need a Manlet King

  • It might actually be good for you both to break up. He would be forced to grow up a bit, cop onto himself, and learn to be a bit considerate of others, and you would get some breathing space and the chance to meet other people.

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