People keep telling me to add them on speeddate messenger and ask for my username. However, the usernames they give me are different than the ones on regular speeddate, so I guess this ‘messenger’ is different from the chat feature on speeddate.com??
Yes, Yahoo! Messenger is a different Chat Client.
I googled the speeddate.com
I believe you are referring to SpeedDate IM alerts. An alpha version available by invite only will be turned on early next week. In the coming weeks more invites will become available.
you will be able to sign-up directly on www.SpeedDate.com .