Okay so, I met this capricorn about two weeks ago. He initiated contact, and we hit it off pretty quickly. He told me he could see a future with me and that I’m what he’s always needed. I’m a cancer girl, so I smother who I like with love and care and I’m also super clingy. I don’t know if caps like to be overly loved, but he told me he liked my clinginess and my affection towards him. He said I was the best. However, he started texting me way, way less. He stopped calling. Stopped coming to my house. I called him out for it yesterday to see what was up and he said he’s not interested anymore. What? I was so good to him and I’m what a typical capricorn male would like. At least I think I am. I’m loyal, smart, classy, told him I wanted to get to know him and take things slow to develop something serious. I’m definitley not going to initiate contact with him, but I really like him. Is this typical capricorn behavior? Will he come back? Should I go back with him if he does come back?
He told you he is not interested anymore? probably because you gave him all the attention, love, affection. You gave him the privilege way too early. I advice you to be busy with your life, friends, activities, forget him for a while, i say two weeks. He will start to miss you and will come back. But dont do it for the sake of him coming back, do it because you deserve a full life, with your friends, family, activities. Show him that you are complete and happy without him.
After all, you dont want a man who directly said to you he isnt interested anymore, you definetly deserve better. stop the clinginess, begin the self value and worth work. Best wishes <3
THEY DONT SAY WHAT THEY ARE THINKING…I DATED TWO OF THEM IN SEVENTIES…ONE DID NOT LOVE ME…WE JUST DATED…BUT I LOVED HIM SO I GOT HURT…2ND ONE WAS SEPARATED AND WOULD NOT SHUT UP ABOUT HIS WIFE…HE STILL LOVED HER UGH SO I GOT TIRED OF THAT..
I know! Im a Cancer married to a Capricorn. He still confuses me sometimes.
Yeah its normal for most caps to disappear. Back when we were in our 20s my hubby would completely stop contacting me soemtimes for even a week.
We discussed it and he said he’s not used to so much emotional pressure. He said he was afraid of me hurting him in the future so he’d rather not have such intense feelings for me and he sometimes felt the need to run away. After years of proving my loyalty and love for him he married me.
So I guess you just need to give him time and be yourself..always be yourself
He does not seem confusing at all. Move on,the birthdays are irrelevant.